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		<title>Comment on Those Invisible Tailwinds by Mom</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/04/06/those-invisible-tailwinds/comment-page-1/#comment-47509</link>
		<dc:creator>Mom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Apr 2013 16:22:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Very well put my dear. . . Yes, we don&#039;t acknowledge what is good about our lives but usually only the bad or obstacles we encounter.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well put my dear. . . Yes, we don&#8217;t acknowledge what is good about our lives but usually only the bad or obstacles we encounter.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Conversations With Remy &#8211; 3/29/13 by Alicia</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/03/29/conversations-with-remy-32913/comment-page-1/#comment-47495</link>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Apr 2013 13:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Later, Remy clarified that &quot;he doesn&#039;t like himself because he keeps his mouth shut.&quot;  I don&#039;t take this statement &quot;I don&#039;t like myself&quot; to mean he truly engages in self-loathing.  I see nothing else in his behavior that would suggest he holds such a belief.  Rather, I think he finds himself without the vocabulary to express his nascent awareness that other people have certain predispositions and talents that he does not have and that some of those abilities are desireable. Welcome to being human my little grasshopper.  :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Later, Remy clarified that &#8220;he doesn&#8217;t like himself because he keeps his mouth shut.&#8221;  I don&#8217;t take this statement &#8220;I don&#8217;t like myself&#8221; to mean he truly engages in self-loathing.  I see nothing else in his behavior that would suggest he holds such a belief.  Rather, I think he finds himself without the vocabulary to express his nascent awareness that other people have certain predispositions and talents that he does not have and that some of those abilities are desireable. Welcome to being human my little grasshopper.  <img src='http://aliciaparr.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Why I&#8217;m Not a Huge Fan of Formal Succession Plans by Alicia</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/03/31/why-im-not-a-huge-fan-of-formal-succession-plans/comment-page-1/#comment-47494</link>
		<dc:creator>Alicia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Apr 2013 15:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having said all that, it sounds like I&#039;m against having succession-like contingency plans in place.  I&#039;m not against that at all.  Here&#039;s what I include in our quarterly rhythm email to leaders that also includes employee ratings and pay review.


Succession/Contingency Planning
 
In addition to the spreadsheet is another bit of &quot;homework&quot; related to succession/contingency planning. You don&#039;t need to send your responses to these questions back to me, but please give thought to:
 
•If you stepped into a wormhole and got transported to an idyllic life-sustaining planet a million light years away, how would your team function in your absence?
 •Who would do what? 
•Do they know how to do those things? If not, how and when do you plan to teach them?
 •Do they know they would be expected to do them? If not, how and when do you plan to let them know?
•Are there some things that no one currently on staff would or could do? If so, what&#039;s the recommended course of action for these (outsource, drop, hire consultant, etc.)?
 
It couldn&#039;t hurt to write your current responses down. If you wrote your answers to these questions down last quarter, please revisit them and see if anything needs updating. For those of you who have experienced recent changes in responsibility, your answers will be understandably lean. Treat this as a starting point that you will be prompted to add to at the beginning of each quarter.


(FWIW, I don&#039;t consider this a formal succession plan.  I can&#039;t imagine anyone would.) :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having said all that, it sounds like I&#8217;m against having succession-like contingency plans in place.  I&#8217;m not against that at all.  Here&#8217;s what I include in our quarterly rhythm email to leaders that also includes employee ratings and pay review.</p>
<p>Succession/Contingency Planning</p>
<p>In addition to the spreadsheet is another bit of &#8220;homework&#8221; related to succession/contingency planning. You don&#8217;t need to send your responses to these questions back to me, but please give thought to:</p>
<p>•If you stepped into a wormhole and got transported to an idyllic life-sustaining planet a million light years away, how would your team function in your absence?<br />
 •Who would do what?<br />
•Do they know how to do those things? If not, how and when do you plan to teach them?<br />
 •Do they know they would be expected to do them? If not, how and when do you plan to let them know?<br />
•Are there some things that no one currently on staff would or could do? If so, what&#8217;s the recommended course of action for these (outsource, drop, hire consultant, etc.)?</p>
<p>It couldn&#8217;t hurt to write your current responses down. If you wrote your answers to these questions down last quarter, please revisit them and see if anything needs updating. For those of you who have experienced recent changes in responsibility, your answers will be understandably lean. Treat this as a starting point that you will be prompted to add to at the beginning of each quarter.</p>
<p>(FWIW, I don&#8217;t consider this a formal succession plan.  I can&#8217;t imagine anyone would.) <img src='http://aliciaparr.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Big Boy Broadcast &#8211; Q1 2013 by Angela K.</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/03/16/big-boy-broadcast-q1-2013/comment-page-1/#comment-47488</link>
		<dc:creator>Angela K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Mar 2013 18:13:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have some of the same concerns about Zach - that he&#039;s already doing what they are going to be doing in kindergarten and when he gets bored he tends to get in trouble.  Zach isn&#039;t nearly as intense as Remy though - he&#039;s kind of a spaz and all over the place.  And just this week Zach finally started spending the entire night in his bed.  Thank goodness.  If he got in our bed he just slept on my head.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have some of the same concerns about Zach &#8211; that he&#8217;s already doing what they are going to be doing in kindergarten and when he gets bored he tends to get in trouble.  Zach isn&#8217;t nearly as intense as Remy though &#8211; he&#8217;s kind of a spaz and all over the place.  And just this week Zach finally started spending the entire night in his bed.  Thank goodness.  If he got in our bed he just slept on my head.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Defining Success for Success by Success, Happiness and Meaning &#171; Alicia Parr&#039;s Adventures</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2011/12/24/defining-success-for-success/comment-page-1/#comment-47485</link>
		<dc:creator>Success, Happiness and Meaning &#171; Alicia Parr&#039;s Adventures</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Mar 2013 18:07:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] Happiness and Meaning  I&#8217;ve written about success before.  I&#8217;m not interested in revisiting that piece, highlighting what parts I agree with and what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Comment on Thoughts on Weight Loss Goals by Alicia Parr</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/02/02/thoughts-on-weight-loss-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-47470</link>
		<dc:creator>Alicia Parr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 22:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Kerri!  

Good to hear from you.

In response to your comment, your position actually supports my point.  :)  Where there&#039;s a disconnect, I think, is that your context is weight loss being the end and goal-setting as a possible means (that doesn&#039;t necessarily work).  The context I was responding to is with a group undergoing the activity of goal-setting with a business-like approach. Goal-setting is the constant in the scenario I was responding within.  Some of the group were setting exercise and health goals with the measurable being x lbs loss per month.  My email was me suggesting that this doesn&#039;t work well for most people and that for those that it does work for probably don&#039;t need to be prompted to set that goal in the first place.  If they are, indeed, desiring to set a goal to help them habituate healthful changes, then they are better off setting a goal that at least aligns with their natural motives.  You are correct that there are often other hidden barriers to weight loss and addressing dysfunctional eating habits, and it&#039;s likely that some of the group are subject to these difficulties, but I didn&#039;t think going down that path with this group was appropriate.  Not over email anyway.  

Thanks for helping me add some context that helps the message apply better to a broader audience.  I&#039;m sure there&#039;s more to say and I&#039;m not suggesting this short note is a complete answer.  It&#039;s a partial thought that might be helpful for a small contingent.

Thanks again,

Alicia]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kerri!  </p>
<p>Good to hear from you.</p>
<p>In response to your comment, your position actually supports my point.  <img src='http://aliciaparr.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Where there&#8217;s a disconnect, I think, is that your context is weight loss being the end and goal-setting as a possible means (that doesn&#8217;t necessarily work).  The context I was responding to is with a group undergoing the activity of goal-setting with a business-like approach. Goal-setting is the constant in the scenario I was responding within.  Some of the group were setting exercise and health goals with the measurable being x lbs loss per month.  My email was me suggesting that this doesn&#8217;t work well for most people and that for those that it does work for probably don&#8217;t need to be prompted to set that goal in the first place.  If they are, indeed, desiring to set a goal to help them habituate healthful changes, then they are better off setting a goal that at least aligns with their natural motives.  You are correct that there are often other hidden barriers to weight loss and addressing dysfunctional eating habits, and it&#8217;s likely that some of the group are subject to these difficulties, but I didn&#8217;t think going down that path with this group was appropriate.  Not over email anyway.  </p>
<p>Thanks for helping me add some context that helps the message apply better to a broader audience.  I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s more to say and I&#8217;m not suggesting this short note is a complete answer.  It&#8217;s a partial thought that might be helpful for a small contingent.</p>
<p>Thanks again,</p>
<p>Alicia</p>
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		<title>Comment on Thoughts on Weight Loss Goals by kerri robbins</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/02/02/thoughts-on-weight-loss-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-47469</link>
		<dc:creator>kerri robbins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2013 12:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think you are tempering with an extremely delicate issue which cannot be simply resolved with such a business-like, matter of fact approach. For some, a goal oriented process to weight loss may work. However, for most the cornerstone to weight issues is linked directly to their mind, body image and emotions. A hearty goal nor a number scale can resolve it but finding what is &quot;eating them up&quot; on the inside.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are tempering with an extremely delicate issue which cannot be simply resolved with such a business-like, matter of fact approach. For some, a goal oriented process to weight loss may work. However, for most the cornerstone to weight issues is linked directly to their mind, body image and emotions. A hearty goal nor a number scale can resolve it but finding what is &#8220;eating them up&#8221; on the inside.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Favorite Characters on TV by Brett</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/01/06/favorite-characters-on-tv/comment-page-1/#comment-47443</link>
		<dc:creator>Brett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jan 2013 13:59:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Columbo is by far the most impressive on the list! Love that show!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Columbo is by far the most impressive on the list! Love that show!</p>
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		<title>Comment on 2012 Reading List by Jennifer Harrison</title>
		<link>http://aliciaparr.com/blog/2013/01/01/2012-reading-list/comment-page-1/#comment-47422</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Harrison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2013 02:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is GREAT, thanks AP.
I want to read this one:
Do Parents Matter? Judith Rich Harris and Child Development.  by Malcolm Gladwell. *
It is on my list!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is GREAT, thanks AP.<br />
I want to read this one:<br />
Do Parents Matter? Judith Rich Harris and Child Development.  by Malcolm Gladwell. *<br />
It is on my list!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Reading List by 2012 Reading List &#171; Alicia Parr&#039;s Adventures</title>
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		<dc:creator>2012 Reading List &#171; Alicia Parr&#039;s Adventures</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jan 2013 20:49:31 +0000</pubDate>
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